Last week and this weekend, my brother and I watched the Ip Man movies (on Netflix) with my dad. Dad is really big on martial arts movies (and naturally, my brother and I fell into it. I like it so much that I wanted to do some sort of martial arts. But, Dad sad I’d break easily. That’s a different post. Nevermind.)
Anyway, we were watching the Ip Man movies with Donnie Yen (LOVE him in the first two).
SideNote: Ip Man: The Final Fight features a different actor because at the time China released Ip Man and Ip Man 2 with Donnie Yen, as it always happens – and you can see this even in publishing – the market became saturated with films on the same topic. Ip Man, for those who don’t know, is the martial arts grandmaster who taught, or taught the student who taught, Bruce Lee. Donnie Yen said he didn’t want the films to lose meaning, so after the second he wouldn’t make another. Hence, the third movie had a different lead actor. And, to be honest, I’m pretending the third never happened because it wasn’t up to par.
Ip Man was very humble and did not like asking for help, owing people favors, or being a burden on others. But, he always had friends and students who were eager to care for him because he lived a frugal, simple life and stuck to his principles.
By the third movie, Ip Man is still married to his young wife and they have two children. But, due to circumstances, Ip Man fled his home in FoShan, China to live in Hong Kong. His wife, Wing Sing, and their two children were able to return to FoShan, but he decided to remain in Hong Kong.
There is a scene in the third movie where Wing Sing visits Ip Man in Hong Kong. She is not used to the city life, the different environment and people, and she misses her husband. Fast forward a bit, and there is a going away dinner for Wing Sing, who is returning the FoShan to be with her children. Ip Man’s students are there (they kinds really love his wife) and they invited a longtime friend and his family. This family, the Lees (not of the Bruce Lees), consists of a working husband who does his best, a stay at home mom, and 8 children.
During the dinner, Wing Sing tries to give the children more food (drum sticks!). The children refuse, are on the verge of tears, and plead with their mother – mom, please, we’ll save the drumsticks for our little brother. Mom, see I didn’t take any of the drumsticks. PLEASE DON’T SELL ME.
Please. Don’t. Sell. Me.
The movie takes place in 1960s Hong Kong. The economy was tanking, businesses were failing, unions were fighting with each other and their employees, and people were out of jobs.
The father had sold the 8th and youngest child in order to feed the other 7. (Me being me, I’ve already weaved a plot around a part of this story and if Khrysten is reading this, she’s shaking her head and cursing my name on a huge sigh. But, shhhh.)
It’s a tough situation. I know a lot of people are going to have strong reactions to this. (Especially with so much human trafficking in the world.) But, it’s not an easy decision.
Do you keep all 8 children and guarantee 10 people starve or do you sell one and hope they have a better life, but have the means to feed the remaining 9 people who depending on you?
In America, if a child is orphaned, abandoned, or in danger they are removed to the foster system until they are adopted or turn 18 and are released from the system.
In Guyana, there is still an orphanage system. However, it is not only for children who don’t have family or were abandoned. The system is set up in a way that if a family has one too many mouths to feed, they can leave the child at the orphanage knowing he or she will be taken care of. It’s not an ideal situation, but this way the child isn’t abandoned, the family can still visit, and the child receives food, shelter, and education.
So, I’m curious. Could you do it? What are your thoughts on the situation?